Hemorrhoids are just blood clots in the tiny veins you have surrounding your sphincter makes sense that the trauma caused to your anus by having unlubricated anal sex could crush/move those veins causing one or more to clot - though I am not a doctor. Others might progress to a small sex toy, or be ready to be penetrated by a larger toy, or even a penis. Communication with your partner about what feels good and how you want to be touched is essential for enjoyable anal play. Anal protrusion after anal sex Go Ask Alice! Although you can have anal sex when you have hemorrhoids, it s better to wait until they ve healed. Moreover, consider avoiding anal sex until you see your health care provider and get treatment. If anal sex is something you really enjoy and choose to resume after treatment, consider asking your boyfriend to penetrate you with a smaller object such as a butt plug. Taking a warm bath before anal sex or lying on your stomach may make insertion easier. Constipation is the leading cause of hemorrhoids, and pregnant women are no exception. This can result in the spread of sexually transmitted infections including. Exposure to the human papillomavirus (HPV) may also lead to the development of anal warts and anal cancer. In addition, hemorrhoids that bleed may place you at increased risk for HIV infection, since the HIV virus can be transmitted more easily through an open "cut" or "wound." Whenever you have anal sex if you have hemorrhoids or not it is always safer. Friction and pressure from penetration can cause further irritation, discomfort, and pain. Practicing vaginal sex after anal sex can also lead to vaginal and urinary tract infections. For the giving partner, the anus may provide a pleasing tightness around the penis.